Tuesday, April 24, 2007

Herald Whig: $.50

Pot of Coffee: $1.00

Prompt to head home instead of Wal-Mart: $0

Smile on his face as he pulled in the drive and saw me waiting on the front porch: Priceless.

Friday, April 13, 2007

left handed compliment...

Sha: Wish I could pull of a big shirt & jeans like that.

1: The only thing Shawna couldn't "pull off" is giving up malls forever.
2: The "big shirt" is ancient. Dating back to the time I wore it more like a jacket since I couldn't button it around me despite the "big" category.
3: I'm landing on the side of compliment. The pastel pink & white check cotton button-down is one of my Spring favs with jeans. As is wearing my white Keds sockless, which I didn't do since she gave me a pedicure yesterday afternoon, not to mention she finds them dated.

I'm not sure exactly how she meant it to be honest. But her eyes danced and she giggled when I gave her my "are you making fun of me?" look. Give her time, I think to myself. Give her time...besides, she showed up with new pink and purple highlights illuminating from her head. I think a big shirt & jeans would be a piece of cake...

Thursday, April 12, 2007

everything...

So I'm at rehearsal last night and the tech crew is making lighting adjustments for services. There are probably half a dozen of them going a mile a minute behind us, over us, around us. This isn't anything out of the ordinary the Wednesday before a series change and since this one requires the lighting of a waterfall the length and height of most of the stage, they have plenty to keep them busy throughout the course of the rehearsal. John is among them since he isn't scheduled to play for the weekend. [It hasn't gone unnoticed by this heart of mine that he often serves in other areas when he isn't playing...gotta love him...] Anyhoo, John's spending a bulk of the time in a lift basket that I can hear being raised and lowered as needed, noticeable at first but then simply blending in with the rest of the band.

We had probably been rehearsing for an hour or so and had reached the third song of our invitation set, the chorus of "Everything" by Lifehouse. Love the song. Love it. So much that I close my eyes as we dwell a spell at the feet of the Almighty. As it reaches my favorite part about the 4th time through the four-chord progression, where the drums go nuts and the vocals are full out, I open my eyes. There in the front of the auditorium moving cautiously (poetically) across the floor and headed for the center aisle is the lift. Fully extended. In it, my beloved John. Arms out, head back, perfectly orchestrated to the "soundtrack" around him. A cross between the famous scene from Titanic (the bow not the car...) and a kid dared to let loose of his handlebars. It was hilarious. And oddly beautiful. Given that his lovely bride made a similar entrance to the same song, same aisle at almost the same time last year: well. Like I said, oddly beautiful. And it made me laugh hard and long. And that's never a bad thing.

Monday, April 09, 2007

low in the grave...

When we were growing up, Christmas and Easter were my mother's favorite times of the year. And as much as she "crafted" our house for Christmas, she wasn't about to snub the Passion weekend. She "recruited" the assistance of my father, who over they years learned to just go along for the ride and admittedly missed it with a vengeance in her absence. For as long as I can remember they placed a cross as tall as I am in our side yard on Good Friday, simply draped with red cloth and a crown of thorns painfully made from branches she harvested from a field somewhere. On Saturday morning she would replace the red material with black and wait. It wasn't until her visitation years later we learned how many random people had been ministered to as they drove by their house year after year in anticipation of Sunday morning. Our "anticipation" was polluted by the fatigue we endured as she cheerfully "raised us" from our sleep in the pre-dawn hours to participate in her expression of worship. I've never been a fan of waking with the robins and unless I become an old person in the purest fashion of rising early and dinner at 4:30, don't see it happening in the near future. Relentlessly, she'd rouse us and drag us out into the chilly temperatures to place lilies around the foot of the cross, a white plastic lamb in their midst and then perfectly arrange the white chiffon draping that would lightly wave over the cross with the breeze. All the while singing in her low alto voice, "Up from the grave He arose...like a mighty triumph o'er His foes...He arose a Victor from the dark domain, and He lives forever, with His saints to reign." And if you're at all familiar with this classic hymn, you already feel it building as it nears the end of the refrain, where she'd bust it out with everything she was made of, "He arose! He arose! Hallelujah, Christ Arose!!"

By the time the yard was transformed, we were awake and well into our annual routine of getting ready for the Sunrise service, fellowship breakfast at church and services. I remember her singing that song all day long. And remember it still. Not an Easter passes without at least humming it. Present year included. I bought a small garden flag that reads "He Is Risen!" last week. Instead of placing it on the lamppost in the front yard that evening, I decided to wait until...Easter morning. Better yet, Kevin volunteered to do it for me when he retrieved the morning paper in the early morning darkness. I'm sure mom smiled.

*As Kevin and I discussed this Saturday afternoon, I made him promise to sing the song. After planting it securely in his head, I hear him whistle it across the kitchen. He had a strong start but I had to laugh as he veered to the left: it went something like this if you hum along. "Up from the grave He arose. With a mighty triumph o'er His foes. With a corn-cob pipe and a button nose, and two eyes made out of coal...” I'm sure mom peed her robe.